Thursday, March 6, 2014

Healing updates - 5 and 6 days post-op

5 & 6 days after surgery, Tuesday and Wednesday 3/4 - 3/5/14
-Highly aware of stitches - just felt sensitive and tender
-Started applying neosporin to stitches
-Still icing as much as possible
-Noticed reduced swelling of balls
-Bruising on balls continued to darken
-Minor bleeding from stitches
-Penis seemed to get more swollen after removing bandages

OK, so it's not really a bulge... but at least there's something there!

Just poking my head out to say HELLO!

Healing updates - 4 days post-op

4 days after surgery, Monday 3/3/14
-Rested a lot after traveling
-Iced throughout the day
-Took Vicodin less often, about every 6 hours
-Removed the vaseline gauze bandages!

Ta-da!!!!

Stitches on the underside of my penis


Healing updates - 3 days post-op

3 days after surgery, Sunday 3/2/14
-Woke up early and checked out of the hotel
-Traveled home, 1.5 hour flight
-Sitting on the airplane was uncomfortable but not painful
-Very tired after traveling, slept like a baby in my own bed
-Iced as much as possible while traveling, but it is awkward to have ice in one's pants while in public!
-Still took Vicodin regularly

Darker bruising, but swelling has gone down a lot

Side view, look how much it stands up!

The other side

Stitches are very tender!

Healing updates - 2 days post-op

2 days after surgery, Saturday 3/1/14
-Rested a LOT, think I overdid it yesterday with all of the excitement!
-Went for a 1/2 mile walk along the Bay in the morning
-Still took Vicodin regularly
-Went to the pharmacy for some milk of magnesia because I was constipated from the narcotics; also bought an inflatable donut cushion and a gel ice pack
-Digestion issues made me have a poor appetite and I was uncomfortable throughout the day
-Went for a short drive in the convertible we rented
-Iced throughout the day
-No photos from today :(

Healing updates - 1 day post-op

1 day after surgery, Friday 2/28/14
-Took Vicodin regularly, every 4 hours
-Very alert and awake throughout the day, due to the 9am phone call I received with an OFFICIAL JOB OFFER!!!
-Had a migraine in the morning and vomited. Got it under control with migraine meds, fluids, and more rest.
-Got many supportive calls and texts from friends throughout the day
-Noticed more swelling than yesterday
-Noticed some bruising on the labia majora (I call it the testicles, though I didn't get scrotoplasty or implants)
-Iced throughout the day and night
-Took a shower, and it didn't hurt at all! Didn't clean my penis or the stitches, just splashed some water down there.
-Dr. Julie Nicole came by my hotel to check on me, said everything looked good
-Went out to dinner to celebrate the job offer, sitting was uncomfortable
-Went to visit a friend, sitting was tolerable for a little while then became very uncomfortable
-Had trouble sleeping through the night

All cleaned up after a shower, bruising on my right nut

I'm ready for my close up! Pretty swollen, but at least my dick casts a shadow now ;)



Healing updates from day of surgery

Healing has been a day-by-day journey. I will try to recount highlight and challenges from each day.

Day of surgery, Thursday 2/27/14
-Pain was manageable with Vicodin
-Took a nap after coming home from the hospital
-Had trouble sleeping through the night
-Very tender and moderately swollen
-Iced throughout the day and night
-Lying in bed flat or with a bunch of pillows propping me up was the most comfortable
-Ate mac and cheese for dinner and stayed hydrated with water and gatorade
-Below are a few pics of what things looked like right after coming back to the hotel. (As you can see, they did a terrible manscaping/shaving job once I was under anesthesia.)


One week post-op: Reflections on surgery day

I've been busy doing absolutely nothing, so I have zero excuses for not posting sooner! My surgery went VERY well and I'm extremely thrilled with the results so far. For the sake of not writing one giant long post about everything that's happened in the past 7 days, I'm going to break things up into themes and write separate posts. This post will be about my reflections of the day of surgery.

I had simple meta with Dr. Bowers on Thursday, February 27, 2014 at San Mateo Surgery Center. I arrived at the surgery center at 8:30am, where a rude and short-tempered receptionist had me sign a bunch of forms that I already signed and questioned me about my insurance coverage. Luckily things got sorted out quickly, and a nurse brought me back to the pre-op/recovery area. It was a small room with three beds, separated by curtains. The nurse had me change into a gown, booties, and a hat. She started the IV and then I waited for maybe 30-45 minutes. Luckily they let my fiancee come back, so she kept me company and we took some silly pictures. Dr. Bowers and Dr. Nicole came by, and then the anesthesiologist (can't remember her name) came and asked me about drug allergies and told me what to expect. She explained that they will give a sedative via IV, pain meds, then propofol (general anesthesia). She also explained what to expect post-op in the recovery room- they would wake me up, ask about my pain, and give additional pain meds if needed.

I walked into the operating room and climbed onto the operating table. I remember the nurses strapping my arms down, and the anesthesiologist giving me the sedative. The last thing I remember is asking why there was only one stirrup for my legs. They explained that the other one was under the table. In my head I was thinking, "I hope you put both of those things up, you need a good view of my junk!" At this point I felt very comfortable and relaxed, and then I must have drifted off because the next thing I knew, I was opening my eyes and the nurse asked me to rate my pain - it was a 6 on a scale of 1-10. They gave me more pain meds via my IV. I was very aware of a throbbing pain between my legs and I had a sore throat from being intubated. At this point S. came back to the recovery room and apparently I was blinking a lot trying to keep my eyes open. It was SO hard to stay awake! But I knew from top surgery that they would want me to wake up and try to drink some water and communicate about my pain. I think it was about 30 minutes before I could get out of bed and pee - that was the test I had to pass before I could leave. I needed S. to come to the bathroom with me because I was pretty wobbly on my legs. I got to take a look at my new package, and WOW! I could already see that it was pretty awesome :) Everything was bandaged up and swollen and ouchy, but at least it was MINE.

Shortly thereafter, S. pulled the car around and the nurse brought me out in a wheelchair. We sat in the car for a few minutes, and S. told me that I got a text from my supervisor at work while I was under, and told me to read my messages... Apparently the interviewer from a job I'd applied for/interviewed for earlier that week called my supervisor for a reference, then told her that she was going to offer me the job! I was so overwhelmed with joy, I started crying. (It was totally not the narcotics talking!) I got this surge of happiness - it just felt so incredible to have this life-changing surgery and get an (unofficial) job offer all in the same day! What good news all around.

We made it back to the hotel and I took a nap almost immediately. I skyped with my parents later that night, and they seemed relieved that I was OK.